的时候也不喜欢女红刺绣，反而喜欢读书写字，习文练武。
When my mother discovered my unconventional interests, she intentionally or unintentionally encouraged me to get closer to my aunt, even hinting that I should try to please her. I didn''t quite understand my mother''s intentions as a young child. However, I was chosen by my aunt during my childhood and eventually lived with her.
我的娘亲发现我的这些不入流，不随大众的性情时，她总是无意或者是有意让我多和这个姑姑亲近，甚至暗示我主动讨好姑姑。那个才几岁的我并不太明白母亲的想法，只是在孩童的时候我被姑姑挑中，后来也随着她一起生活。